Softball & Self-Esteem: Overcoming Concerns About Fitting In

Question
Hey.. Well i want 2 play softball and I'm really good at it 2. My friends and family tell me 2 go ahead you're really good you need to play. I want 2 play but I'm a tomboy i dress like a guy but i have long hair. you know?! lol. Well anyway i want 2 play but I'm scared other people might pick on me or say something about me and stuff like that. What should i do??? Please help!!! lorra...

Answer
Hi Lorra,

If you're good people won't really care what you look like.  I would suggest trying to get onto a local co-ed rec league in your area.  Most people join those types of leagues for fun and to meet new people.  The quality of your play isn't really that important a factor either.  You can usually put your name on a list as an indivual and if a team is short a female they will call you.  Females can be hard to come by so you should expect a call.

It sounds like you have been hangin with a very critical croud, it may be time for a change and meeting new people is a great way to make new friends.

Good luck!

Shane